Five things that a person shouldn't have

Egoism

I don’t need anyone in life to run my errands. Alone I can take care of myself and can handle everything. Do you think you know more than I(do)? How dare you talk to me like that? Do you know who I am? You are just a rookie. You should ask me before doing anything. Have you come across anyone who talked to you like this or behaved similarly. Yes? Congratulations! You have come across an Egoist. Egoism is one of such qualities that should not be there in a person as it can ruin your life, your relationships, and whatnot. Once an egoist will always be an egoist. Egoists have this weird tendency of ostracizing themselves from society as they think that it is they who hold the best opinions and others are simply fools. They are self-centric, unsympathetic, parochial, and whatnot. Even if you try to explain a minor problem to an egoist, he will make a mountain out of a molehill/it. 

A Bad Temper

Bad temper is linked to Egoism just like the bogies are linked to a rail engine. To make the bogies stop you need to stop the engine. If you don’t let go of your egoism, you won’t be able to deal with your bad temper. To cancel out a negative thing you need something positive. If you have -5 and need the net resultant to be zero, you will need +5. Until you get +5, you won’t be able to make the net resultant zero. People with bad temper are more prone to making bad judgments as they are not very sanguine. People with bad temper are known for aggression as they lose their composure as soon as they find themselves in a bad situation. If you meet someone with a bad temper make sure not to have a prolonged conversion with him especially when the opinions differ. Losing temper is his Achilles hill and if you mess with him, you will certainly land yourself in hot water.

Pomposity

Just like the above-mentioned things, a man should not be pompous of his achievements. If you have leadership qualities, you should consider passing them on to others. If you think you have achieved something significant in life, you should talk this through with others and let them know the key principles that have helped you achieve big in life and have made you into a successful being. 

Prejudice 

Do you have the audacity to choose between right and wrong? Some people don’t. They choose the wrong thing over the right one. Sometimes an undeserving candidate is chosen over a deserving candidate. Most of us are prejudiced in our opinions and form wrong opinions based on our prejudices. It is nothing but preconceived notions about someone or people belonging to a different class or a different religion. Sometimes a bad experience with somebody in the past leads to prejudiced thoughts. Let’s take a scenario: I told my friend to keep a secret a secret but he didn’t live up to my expectations. What I will do is tar everyone with the same brush because my trust has been broken once and it is very difficult for me to trust someone again. So you see I have formed an opinion that nobody is to be trusted. 

Jealousy

It arises when you think of materialistic things. Do you know that your friend has just bought a luxury car? How can he? How come he has a luxury car and I have a normal car? Do you know that he has a Rolex watch? I wish I would buy a Rolex watch one day. When you think of things that you can’t afford and are not happy with what you have, the feeling of jealousy starts showing up. To be not jealous of somebody’s achievements is the real spirit. If you work hard, you will also have what you desire.